Experiencing life as a woman for over six decades can make a person bold, wise and impatient. While I've shed that sense of limitless possibilities and invincibility that inspired my younger self to resist all attempts to pigeonhole me, the lessons learned by surviving the consequences, both economic and emotional, are now mine to share. Sharing those hard-won lessons lends worth to my existence.

Slowed by the side effects of beating cancer and growing older, there is an urgency to this sharing; I no longer assume there is always tomorrow. Here I offer what I have learned about living a life that is honest; relevant; prioritizing what is truly important, and contributing to the greater good of all sentient beings. 

I hope you will retuned often to read the insights of this grandmother who embraces each person who shares this planet with me, and all who will come after me, as my own bloodline. I pass along the old skills and new innovations (survival hacks) for living simply and exuberantly while thriving in a world gone mad – the lost practical arts of homemaking, gardening, cooking, sewing and making the best of what you have. In addition to these how-to guides, some days what I write will be more profound or (knowing me) passionately opinionated, and others days I might simply wander in streams of consciousness.

Considering the current state of affairs that we find ourselves, my goal is to balance honest observations with humor and positive solutions. This is not a diatribe; it is a conversation. Your respectful exchanges are welcome!

Pasta con Sarde

Pasta con Sarde e Finocchietto

I always used to make this meal when my kids were little. During this COVID 19 isolation, many of us […]

The Chrysalis Mask Just Keeps Getting Better!

The enthusiastic response to the Chrysalis facemask I’m selling on ByJeeni.com is so exciting! What’s more, most people are paying […]

A Sense of Sourdough

This began as a recipe for my blog, then became a poem. Is it a recipe? Is it a poem? […]

And then, sometimes everything goes as planned.

All of these "turns for the better" after days of frustration, can be attributed to two things: persistence and privilege.

The Chrysalis Facemask Cover

I have improved the design and instructions for the Chrysalis facemask that can be used to protect an N95 or […]

Day 14 – Emergence and Transformation

Day 14: No word yet on the COVID 19 test – I should hear from them today. I started feeling […]

COVID 19 Self-Treatment Suggestions

So, if you are feeling sick, first seek your doctor’s advice. But if that’s not available or they are too pressed to get into the self-care details, this might save you a trip to urgent care where, if you don’t have COVID 19, you might just pick it up like the goody bag from hell to take home to your family. If you are having trouble breathing, ask your doctor over the phone if you can get a prescription for an albuterol inhaler. If you’ve been sick for a week, ask about antibiotics. COVID 19 will weaken your defenses and leave you open to opportunistic bacterial infections that go in for the kill.

Two books that ruined my life – or so it seemed.

When you are the eldest of ten, and a bit of a misfit, you spend an inappropriate amount of time […]

Prickly Pears – Refreshing and Delicious

Prickly Pears are refreshing and delicious once you know how to harvest and prepare them.

Is that a googootz in your pocket?

Back when I lived in New Jersey and Long Island, we were surrounded by lottsa fellow Italian-Americans. I don’t know […]

Isn’t It Good, Norwegian Wood? Good Bye to San Diego Free Press

I didn’t think much of the novel, Norwegian Wood by Haruki Murakami while I was reading it. But just like the Beatles […]

One Voter’s Vision

What if we could be voting for a real vision, instead of just trying to curb the daily assaults on justice […]

Homelessness and Capitalism: Some Untold Truths

by Jeeni CriscenzoPublished in San Diego Free Press May 30, 2018 According to the survey in the 2018 Point-in-Time Count […]

Homeless families defined out of existence and assistance.

In his commentary in the UT 1 last Sunday, John Wilkens offered a creative analogy to the annual homeless Point-in-Time Count […]

Mommy (and God) Loves Me Food

I grew up in a little town outside Paterson, New Jersey where most of the residents were second or third […]

My wheelchair view of my garden from my back porch.

In Control by Letting Go

If the current dose of daily news isn’t enough to convince you that there’s not much about our lives that […]

My grandson at the grand old California Sycamore.

Legacies Sown in the Shade of an Old Sycamore.

We never know what legacies we are leaving, what seeds we are sowing. Two years ago, my grandson, who was […]

Hidden Homelessness

I began writing this book in 2014 and by late 2015 it became obvious that no publisher could be convinced […]

Chicken Meditations

The phone rang early this morning. The phone number for Amikas, the non-profit I founded in 2009 to house homeless women and children, is […]

Fire Ants

We were coming down to the wire in the ’04 election campaign. The thought of Bush being president for another […]

The Day Lennon Died
It’s a date I still mark as a point of reference, the apogee of a level of tribulation and pain …
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Broken
There’s no disagreeing that the system is broken that dumped you, empty-handed, at my door with nothing left but pride …
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Lively Hoods
“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing …
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Checkmate
This is for Rosie O’Donnell and Megyn Kelly and all the women verbally abused by Donald Trump and other bullies …
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Traumatized
The first time I was accused of being a privileged white woman, I was defensive. I tried to explain all …
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Last Judgement
“All Rise!” the bailiff shouted, As the door to the judge’s chambers flung open. Commandeering the entryway, a brilliant figure, …
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Planned Obsolescence
I lie here beside you sleepless enumerating priorities of issues and concluding that time is running out for species Consumeratis Glutonous …
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Hey You!
Hey you, activist men, progressive politicians, beloved leaders, You said you wanted to change the world, and we believed in …
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Lettuce
Needed an excuse to sit in the sun, put my feet up and breathe. Opened an envelope of lettuce seed …
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I Am a Poet
This is not the love poem I planned to write. I began with the best of intentions. But last night, …
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Dismissed
I had waited until after the meeting to approach the chair and ask to be on the committee. Thirty years …
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Healthcare Pimps
They said, “Bend over, This is gonna hurt. We’ve got a dose of insurance to insert. We’re sorry for your …
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Tribute to Steve Kowit
It was a privilege to listen to you weave words like a Mayan pattern revealed deliberately, precisely, ingenuously. One poet …
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On Hold
Thank you for waiting. We know your time is valuable. We appreciate your patience. A representative will be with you …
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Winter Solstice
Even as I succumb to this feeling of complete absolute despair, Even as I resign myself That I am helpless …
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Be Still
As sure as the setting sun, my work is not done. Not in this garden. Not in anything I’ve set …
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One Fearless Force
Oh my dear sisters, do you hear our children crying out to us? From US border camps, From the beaches …
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Combinations
I savor a gourmet blend of Kona & Columbian in my morning grind. Peaches & cream… wine & cheese… peanut …
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Fire Ants
We were coming down to the wire in the ’04 election campaign. The thought of Bush being president for another …
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On the Shores of San Onofre
Oh Medusa, you beguiled so many, basking with only your breasts exposed on the shores of San Onofre. Your hideous …
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Security
Oh, PLEASE don’t take my breakfast! I packed it so carefully this morning in my recycled jar… yogurt, with strawberries …
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